Thursday, December 31, 2009

忘了好好感谢自己


哇哈哈哈哈!跨年静心祈福的时候拿到这个祈福纳财包里头有这个功课。。太好了,太棒了!

后来冷静下来发现昨晚对2009和2010写的感言后,却忘了好好感谢自己。

接着佳虹就说过两天一起去逛街了。感谢这位好邻居佳虹和邦跃。

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

当和尚遇到钻石

几年前我读过一本书叫‘当和尚遇到钻石’是关于一位取得藏传佛教最高学位的‘格西’进入美国商业界试验佛法并运用金刚经理论在事业和生活上。

我没有想过会在台湾看到他会来台北做演讲的消息,我并不崇拜任何大师可是我内心非常希望能够可以去听他的演讲。后来把这件事耽搁下来忙其他事,直到格西演讲的前两天LC提到要去参加,我好惊喜愿望实现了,马上买票往台北去。

格西,Michael Roach很自在的在台上散发自然和温暖的笑容让在场的人感到很舒服,他来台的这一趟带领了一大群来自美国钻石大学的管理层和教授一起推广免费课程主要是教育以佛学策略经营企业和招募懂中文和英语的志工,希望能够透过这些志工和西方人交流中国文化和教他们中文。

格西在演讲里不断的传达一个金刚经的‘空’性,好比如有一个人看待一只‘笔’是可以写字用的,但是把这只‘笔’给一只狗的话,狗会张开嘴巴就咬这只‘笔’,对于狗,这支笔是一格磨牙工具,狗不可能拿这只笔写信给狗女友吧?好有意思,为什么同样是一只‘笔’可是却有不一样的功能对于不一样的对象。
从这个观点,我理解到一切唯心造。任何一个人事物让我们有所看法的都是一种内心的投射,也就是看到这个人的弱点的时候其实是内在的弱点被凸显出来而让自己看到不舒服。同样的我觉得这个人很棒是因为内心的美丽。

另一个分享是种‘种子’,我今天很诚意的付出一百元给一位需要这笔钱的朋友,我就种了一个‘财富’的种子给我自己,而我将会得到十倍我付出去的钱。假如今天我是单身而希望找到一个理想伴侣,我要去种‘种子’,怎样种?我要去协助单身的朋友找到伴侣或者是关心单身的朋友让他们快乐。再一个例子,我是从事设计工作而需要更多的创意灵感,而我需要做的是欣赏和赞美有创意的人的作品,这样我也是种了创意的种子。
从这个原理是要我们先‘付出’就会有所‘收获’。

最后一个是百分之10基金会,也就是把每个月的收入的百分之5,10或50,任你决定开另一个帐户存至少六个月,有了这笔钱后我们就是这个基金会的唯一负责人,然后呢不是要我们随便找一家孤儿院或老人院开一张支票把钱捐出去,举例我前几天经过一家幼儿院看到一位老师和几个可爱的小朋友在花园种话,我很感动我决定捐助他们一些钱去进行这个活动。我们把基金会里的钱付出给我们内心感觉值得支持和鼓励的人事物,多少钱由自己决定,付出钱给任何你想帮助的人的时候必须是真诚和尊敬的心(感谢他们让我们有机会付出)



美国钻石大学的团队



来自美国Rob Hou是运用‘空’性在他任职的银行系统里成功的一位见证者同时也是‘业力管理法则’的作者之一

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

丰盛.圆满 2009 ~ 奇迹 2010

丰盛。圆满2009~是我最想形容2009年的一句话。

这一年感觉好像过得既快又久。。。
我想对2009的一切说声‘谢谢和对不起’。。。

感谢每一天发生的事件尽管是好的和不好的。。
感谢我到过的每一个地方。。
感谢我所见过的每一个人
感谢我享用过的食物
感谢每一个让我感到不舒服的人事物
感谢每一次我自己障碍自己的时候
感谢我的家人,朋友,个案们。。。

对不起有因为我的言语或态度而感到不舒服的人
对不起被我抱怨过的人事物
对不起我做/说了不该做/说的事情
对不起我该做/说而没有做/说的事情
对不起我没有顾及到任何人的感受
对不起我的身体承受了我的情绪而不舒服

感谢。感谢再感谢这一切。。。。。

我期待已经是奇迹的2010!

慢下来。。。。

下班前,高雄的SY问我说:保璇,最近我中心的时钟时针跑慢了,家的时钟也停止转动了,手表的电池换了之后时间还是跑慢了,到底有什么讯息?

我问SY说:慢下来有让你联想到什么?
她说:最近很多事情忙和做事情是有比较急啦。。。噢,了解到
时钟给她的讯息是希望她停下来或慢下来沉淀自己。

挂下电话之后,恍然大悟这个讯息也是同样给我的。。。

心灵就是好玩,不断地透过人事物和现象告诉我们。

收到后要当下转念哦。

好!我已经慢慢了。。。

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Letters

这是让我粉感动的信,在北京的小弟写了一封信给在台中的我和在马来西亚的大弟,然后,我和大弟分别回了一封信给小弟,感动的是我们彼此超越物质上的成长,其实并没有比任何人更强或更棒,也不是姐弟之间在比谁的事业更有成就,而是一种从来没有意料的奇迹会发生~我们的心灵成长和转换。

对我而言,已经是一份最珍贵的礼物和喜悦。

Letter from brother

I realised that sometimes certain things happen against our will is for us to stop and re-route.

Another example, if i would to reach a destination and it has a mountain in between, its not neccessary we have to go through it or remove the entire mountain with technology and effort, but why cant we just simply walk around it? I am not suggesting to take a short cut or an easy way out, because walking around the mountain is dangerous too, and require skill, patient, and determination.

I have been using the zero limits to visualise a perfect team and client 3 weeks before joinning Leo Burnett, it works! the client is nice, willing to listen, and the team are young and hardworking, and i get a higher position and more money. So what i've learnt is that, keep our intention pure, filled our heart with love, be selfless, respect the earth, and the universe will take care of you.

Regards,
Justin

Letter replied by me

Thank you so much for your sharing, it's remind me with a lot of things.

I believe in things happen for a reason. As for me, seems like i am getting back to a company and office life that involving 'People'. Since I have been through a failure in management skill and dealing internally with colleagues, i think another chance is given to me to go through it again with new mindset and self awareness in order to test whether i can pass the examination.

Thankful for this opportunity to go through all this clearly (清清楚楚的做)instead of blindly doing it. Every person i feel not comfortable to talk to or deal with i see it like a 'mirror' that reflects my weakness, whenever any issues happened i can see that i am 'replaying' old memories.

Everytime, if i dislike a person, makes me realise i dislike about myself. everytime, i see a person who is giving, i see the selfisness inside me........

Thankful again for all this "gift' given to me along the way to mold me.

Regards,
Sister

Letter replied by brother, ED

My dearest brother & sister,

First, I must say that Justin you evolve fantastically in brighter journey fill with love as you used to be. It is my journey too. I have changed some beside me with love factor added into the working environment and I still have alot of homework to catch up.

What you did clearly reflect the TRUTH of all around us is as per our current mindset. We change and all material things will changed around us just like that. Amazing isn't it.

I would like to say that we have to keep choosing the same path everytime we are faced by situation and problems and not being carried away by it. The situation that keep coming against us show the area that we have not learn well and we have to keep learning and breakthru' it and brother you have succeeded. Keep it up.

Sister, you keep it up too and I have to keep it up as well. Remember....great shift in Consciousness....

May Loves & lights be with both of you always.
Edward